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Sync potty training progress across parents, daycare, and grandparents with smart accident prediction and supply management.
Added Nov 30, 2025
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Parents struggle with inconsistent potty training across multiple caregivers, leading to 2-3 daily accidents despite preschool success. They face supply shortages (underwear), sensory clothing battles, and no clear pattern tracking between home, daycare, and grandparents. Current solutions are isolated and don't coordinate the entire care team.
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My almost 4 year old daughter refuses to use the potty at school or at home. She throws fits and cries and just won’t do it no matter what you offer or take away. I’ve watched every YouTube video on this, taken advice from family and friends.. nothing works. We did the 3 day method. We have tried being naked, she pees on the floor and doesn’t care. We have tried only panties and she pees and poops in her panties and it doesn’t bother her. I’ve tried having her change her own pull up. I’ve tried rewards, books to read, singing songs. She will hold it until she’s off the potty. She’s extremely smart and capable. She just tells me she doesn’t want to. But im at my wits end here because she needs to get potty trained for school. NOTHING WORKS. And I feel so judged like im responsible for her delay
My almost 4 year old daughter refuses to use the potty at school or at home. She throws fits and cries and just won’t do it no matter what you offer or take away. I’ve watched every YouTube video on this, taken advice from family and friends.. nothing works. We did the 3 day method. We have tried being naked, she pees on the floor and doesn’t care. We have tried only panties and she pees and poops in her panties and it doesn’t bother her. I’ve tried having her change her own pull up. I’ve tried rewards, books to read, singing songs. She will hold it until she’s off the potty. She’s extremely smart and capable. She just tells me she doesn’t want to. But im at my wits end here because she needs to get potty trained for school. NOTHING WORKS. And I feel so judged like im responsible for her delay
Here are some things she does. Able to tell us when she pooped by pointing to her diaper and trying to take it off Irritated if we don't change it right away Will nod her head up and down or side to side if we ask if she pooped Usually goes 2hrs at least between urination Interest in the toilet When she pees she will look at her crotch area and point Will take her pants off when dirty diaper. She is a little behind in her language development so she can't say poop or pee yet but she definitely understands what each are, we don't have a potty yet for her, and how the heck do we start? Cold turkey or gradual change?
The title says it all. I want to pull what's left of my hair out over this. I've tried bribing, I've tried being supportive. I've tried it the hard way. One day I was so frustrated I told him we were done with diapers and we were going over to underpants. It resulted in him having a complete meltdown down and a pissed off wife. I'm at my wits end here.
My daughter is 3, will be 4 in May. We have been potty training since she showed signs of readiness... In January 2024. She does pretty well, but she still has at least 2-3 accidents per day and poops her pants at least once every few days. I'm so done. I am lost. I have dozens of undies for her and go through them at light speed to the point that I'm struggling to find new ones for her after a few days. My mom watches her during the week and has the same problem with her. She goes to preschool and she maybe has an accident once a month or less there. Granted it's only 2 days per week, but still. We have talked to her pediatrician about it and been brushed off, saying it's normal. She knows and understands when she needs to go. She refuses to go on time. I try to be gentle and understanding as often as possible but I'll be the first to admit there's times I lose my sh--. I feel bad because she's only 3. I feel incredible guilt getting mad at her. But I'm at the end of my rope with it. I'm considering putting her back in diapers full time.
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