This is so true for many men. Unless your appeal lies primarily in your looks, it’s really hard to show off your desirable traits on an app. I won’t get any matches online but be approached several times while out dancing at the club.

If a genie came out of a bottle and offered me my ideal woman, then yes I have a type. In the real world I'm approaching all different kinds of women: black, white, Asian, mixed like me whatever...for me it's just about her overall look or personality that wins me over. Dating apps, those a barren wasteland for me. I've never felt so undesirable in my entire life while using those things. I'd occasionally get likes but it was always from extremely overweight/unattractive women and I say that respectfully. The likes I send out never result in a match either, even if I had everything she wanted in her profile, they just never found me attractive back. Even tried paying premium servies and sending out super likes/roses and that never helped either. I'm not avoident and rejecting women off petty things. I literally can't even get a foot in the door and go on a date. I simply get almost zero interest here and idk why.

I look like I could beat up Patrick Swayze in Road House if you put the two of us side by side, I got zero matches until I set my height to over six foot and then I was getting like ten a week. Online dating is for shallow women and men that hate themselves imo. Waste of time if you're looking for a good person with how these apps are currently algorithmed.