You sound shy. It's cute. Since you're nervous try a hand touch with prolonged eye contact first. You'll get a good sense of whether or not she wants/is open to a kiss from you. An easy way to initiate a hand touch is have your drink near her hand when you reach for the drink slide your.hand just a little further and gently touch her hand. If you're still feeling shy try initiating a kiss on her cheek. It's very sweet and gentle and you can do it In public if you fumble in private. It can start to build a little tension so you don't get friend zoned and you'll feel more comfortable breaking the touch barrier. PS- If youre inexperienced don't try to oversell your experience. Be vulnerable. A lot of women think it's really endearing. Especially the ones already out on a date with you.

There’s two reasons: your looks and your passivity. You can improve the first one over time by improving your personal style, learning to style your hair, and getting more physically fit. The second one may take some internal work. Typically, this passive attitude comes from a fear of loneliness/rejection manifesting as a hesitancy to make others uncomfortable. As a result, you behave overly accommodating towards others which comes across to women as a lack of confidence. In your mind, you’re just being respectful and polite, but they see it as either being spineless, potentially being manipulative (not saying what you really want out of fear of an emotional response), or even as rejecting their “obvious” advances (which you likely never saw, or if you did, interpreted as “she’s just being friendly, there’s no way she’s interested in ME”). Also, if you like something or believe in something, don’t apologize for it or pretend you don’t to get approval from a girl. They can tell you’re being dishonest. They respect you more if you stick to your guns, and if it is a deal-breaker for them, then that probably wasn’t someone you would enjoy being in a relationship with anyway. When women notice that you don’t advocate for your own desires and interests, they suspect that you do not mean what you say, and they see you not acting on or escalating their flirtations, they lose attraction. The best advice is just be honest from the jump about what you want. Assume that the girl IS flirting with you and not just being friendly (because studies have shown that men can’t tell anyways). If you think a girl is attractive, tell her (give her a personal compliment). Ask out WAY more people because you actually have no clue who is attracted to you and who isn’t, so if you’re only asking out women you “know” are into you, you’re still going to be wrong at least half the time and miss out on a bunch of other women who were interested (you just had no idea). If you ask her out and ...